Have a fantasy about a certain someone? Do you need to change things up in the bedroom? Maybe you or your partner needs to try out adult costumes. Truly the only limit is your imagination. The only chance you may have to sleep with a naughty librarian or a nurse is by getting your partner to wear an outfit.

You know your fantasy, but does your partner? Getting your partner involved may be the most difficult part of using adult costumes in the bedroom. To you it may seem normal, but your significant other may not entirely understand why you want her to dress up like Martha Stewart and bang in a room with co-ordinating sheets and drapes. Ok, I don't really understand that one, but you get the point. You are asking someone to assume a role that is not necessarily theirs. Being respectful is the name of the game.

Finding the adult costumes is the fun part. Many adult stores have the standard costumes. So if feel like having someone dress up as a naughty nurse or a dirty policeman, then your friendly local adult novelty store is your best bet. If your tastes are more out in left field, you may have to shop arount. A Halloween store could be your best friend in this situation. If you want to dress up as a swamp monster, I'm sure they have you covered.

Don't forget about the internet as well. The internet has a niche for everyone, and if you can't find a store that carries the adult costumes you are looking for, I can say with relative certainty that it will be there somewhere on the internet.

Make sure when you are experimenting with adult costumes that you don't take it too seriously. It should all be fun! Don't forget to accessorize also. How can a sexy nurse be expected to inspect her bedridden patient without her naughty doctors kit? How will a French maid bring the strawberries and whipped cream without her tray? How is a policeman supposed to investigate the complaint of public nudity without his nightstick and handcuffs?

Let your imagination run wild by bringing adult costumes into your bedroom. Remember, the biggest erogenous zone on the body is your mind.

Isn't it time to take care of yourself, you have worked all day, cleaned your house from top to bottom, you pretty much finished your entire to do list for today. Now, what is there left to do?

One thing should come in mind, and that is pleasing yourself. First you can start off by taking a long and hot bubble bath, just to relax those aching muscles. Then you can light some candles around and turn on some nice tunes to relax your mind and spirit. Lastly, you can take out your vibrator and start enjoying the bliss of pleasing yourself. No need to wait around for someone else to do it for you. That is what vibrators are here for. It is design for pure pleasure and bliss. Go ahead, and just please yourself into total submission. Explore your deepest desires and sexual fantasies.

No one can please you like you can, so why not charge up those batteries; get your freak on. Just relax and enjoy the fantastic vibrating ride. So many colors, styles, and uniquely design vibrators to choose from. They're hundreds to choose from, whichever you choose, make sure it does your body good. Some people pick ones that are curved, thick or they sometimes choose a vibrator based on their favorite color or print. Some people believe that only single people can enjoy the benefits of using vibrators, but they are sadly mistaken. Many couples use different toys for love making. They use certain tools to add spice or sexiness to their love making. Adding a vibrator to the mix can add a little or a lot of new uncovered territory of pleasure, for both parties. Using toys in the bedroom adds romance and excitement to your love making.

Make sure you have extra batteries lined up or you can purchase rechargeable batteries. With rechargeable batteries, you can rest assure that your batteries will not die on you. Bring back the excitement in a dull or boring relationship; take back your entice and pleasures of pleasing yourself. It does not matter if you are single or if you are in a serious and monogamous relationship, you can truly benefit from using toys and special love making machines or gadgets to get your rocks off. For you and your partner.

Of course size matters I hear you yell. Although contrary to popular belief not all of us are looking for the widest, longest vibrators to pleasure ourselves with. No there are many who prefer a vibrator that won't scare their pussy tightly closed. This is the reason vibrators come in many shapes and sizes what is good for one is obviously not good for another. While some of us think there is nothing better than seeing the term 'Thick' when vibrator browsing others prefer the terms 'elegant and slender'. So if you prefer your vibrators thinner then the average what should you do when vibrator shopping?

Well here are some tip to help you find your BFF.

1/ If you see a vibrator you like but can't find the dimensions on the site you are purchasing it from make sure you email the seller and ask them for the length, usable length, width and circumference.  Also ask them the material the vibrator is constructed from and how many vibration units it has. Also feel free to let them know what you are after so they can give advice to you if this suits what you're hoping to achieve from the vibrator. See everyone is different some prefer harder vibration on the clitoris while others prefer light. Some prefer pearls others like just vibration in the vagina. By asking questions you are more likely to not be disappointed when you rev that best friend up the 1st time.

2/ If you prefer a thinner vibrator but want that g-spot and simultaneously clitoral stimulation that rabbits provide but you find the rabbits all to thick and long. Try mixing it up get a g-spot vibrator and match it with a bullet or egg for clitoral stimulation. Use both together and receive the same stimulation as a rabbit but you have more control and can stimulate more areas than just a rabbit.

3/If new to the wonderful world of Vibration start off with a basic unit. If the site has a 'beginners' area browse and see what they recommend. Try something that you are comfortable with and start of small. When you find that you enjoy the stimulation from a vibrator you can always go back to the site and try other shapes and sizes of vibrators. This way at least you have had some experience and have some knowledge of what you like.

4/ Always buy a decent personal lubricant that is made to preform with sex toys. Preferably buy one when you purchase your new toy this way you are assured it will be fine to use with your vibrator.

5/ Don't be afraid to ask the seller questions. It is not 1950 anymore and you need to be happy with your purchase. They are in the business of selling these little pleasure machines so DO NOT be afraid to ask all kinds of questions.

 Unlike other kinds of shopping where you can try before you buy obviously with vibrators you can't. So my advice to anyone who wants to enter the world of vibrators is start of small see what does it for you and go from there. Be sure to be happy with what you are purchasing and don't be afraid to ask the retailer questions.

Eventually most of us in a relationship come to realise that just having ’sex’ is not what it once was with our partner. It’s just human nature to find that having straight sex with the same person for the last five years is no where as exciting as it was in the first couple of years. This is the time to consider spicing things up and even if you are prudish in the bedroom there is always a toy, costume or even a new position that could bring back the gleam in your and your partners eye.

Now the easiest way is to add adult costumes to your love making. Maid outfits, police and playboy bunnies are always sexy ways to mix it up in the bedroom you can use just as stimulus or get into the whole act by play acting the parts out. The hotel maid come to clean the room, the police officer exchanging ripping up a speeding fine for sex. The playboy bunny at the mansion or even the sexy nurse / doctor giving out love medicine. The possibilities are endless and the range of costumes that you can buy is huge. Most costumes on the lower end of the price scale are one size fits most so you might not get perfect fits but for the bedroom you don’t want to be spending a fortune. As long as it looks sexy and you feel good that is all that matters.

Spice things up and get that imagination working overtime for making your love making more than just the ‘Norm’.

There are several materials that are used to make what we call hard dildos. The materials used are mainly metal dildos, glass dildos and acrylic/plastic dildos. They are generally at the higher end of the market as regards to cost.
They do not give or bend and therefore when used in the right demeanour supply an intense kick and are great for G-spot kick ( it's a superb way to achieve an unbelievable orgasm) or when used for penetration putting pressure on an internal point a girl find pleasurable.
A hard dildo though isn't for everyone because it perhaps too intense with the love aid not having any give, I wouldn't suggest this kind of sex toy for someone new to like help use. The price also makes these options appropriate for a more sophisticated user.
When it comes to lubricants for glass, metal and plastic dildos you may use water or silicone based lubricants, although you may find that silicone lubricants don?t always adhere to the toy and the water based lubricant easier to use.

Glass Dildo's

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For masturbation, foreplay or to extend a love making session, many people find that glass dildos are excellent accessories for enjoying sex solo or with a partner. These luxury love toys can be amazingly versatile instruments of pleasure. Some times it feels just great to go with a standard in and out technique. However, if you want to experience amazing sex with a Touch of Glass, try enhancing your stimulating style.

Although visually appealing, the spiral wraps, ribs, bumps, nubs, twists and curves used to style glass dildos are also designed to stimulate. Sensitivity to the style nuances varies from person to person and throughout a play session. So, mix and match different techniques during foreplay. Then, as the pleasure intensity builds, get into a rhythm with one motion and trigger an explosive orgasm.

Here are a few ways to add a creative, sensual flare to your love play using glass love toys:

• Glide 'n Slide involves smoothly sliding a nicely lubricated glass dildo such that the head glides along the natural curves of the vagina. With each penetration, alter the angle of entry so that every internal region is caressed. Note how the pressure points on the labia and vaginal entrance shift so the pleasure is spread all around. Periodically take the glass dildo completely out and trace the slippery head along the lips and around the opening to the vagina to keep every bit moist and aroused.
• Curves and contours may be designed specifically to reach and massage the G-spot in just the right way or to feel great when stroking in and out. Note that the inner portion of the clitoris wraps around the vagina so these sensual curves can be used to angle in and massage seldom explored pleasure pockets. Curved dildos also encourage a glide 'n slide style of penetration that massages the clitoris and labia too.
• Ultra Slow & Sensual penetration is excellent for the initial insertions of a textured glass dildo. Focus on every artistic detail as it fills you with joy. Use a mirror while masturbating with a glass dildo to experience this visual stimulation too. A slow withdrawal with clenched PC muscles can also create an intense sensation.
• Wonderful Waves made with joined spheres or rings on a straight shaft will create ripples of rapture when inserted with long, smooth deep thrusts. Start slow and then increase the intensity until orgasm.
• Twist & Twirl your glass dildo while fully or partially inserted so that the textured shapes rotate and stimulate all around. Offset shapes will rub against and tickle the G-spot. Use a slight twisting motion while thrusting to alter the sensation as well. With a slower insertion, you can use a corkscrew motion to create a different feeling. Continue the corkscrewing as you withdraw the glass dildo then reverse direction going back in.
• Getting Jiggy with short, rapid thrusts will quickly trigger a wild response especially when you angle the head of the glass dildo toward the G-spot. Use a quick back and forth wrist movement to create a fluttering or pulsing sensation.
• Wild Wiggles include zigzags left to right, up and down and arcing sweeps all around at various depths of penetration. Use a wiggling motion to insert just the head of the glass dildo and stimulate the labia and opening of the vagina. When inserted slightly deeper, the wiggling motion can tantalize the sides of the vagina and rub against the G-spot. Deeper still, wiggling and circular motions will stimulate the cervix with the smooth surface of the dildo.

Caution: glass is very hard and will hurt if you hit the pelvic bone the wrong way. And, although the glass dildo will not break, intimate body parts can so avoid extremely rough activities.

Tantalizing Temperature Twists

Glass dildos retain temperature very well. Stoke the passion fires with a heated poker or cast a charming chill with a cool wand. Glass love toys can be warmed in a pan of hot water or cooled in ice water for added stimulation (20-30 minutes should do). Remember, temperature changes intensify the stimulation. Enhance the exciting sensations with these temperature techniques:

• A cool vagina filled with a warm penis feels amazingly hot. After using a chilly dildo for a minute replace it with the real thing. Then repeat.
• Blindfold your partner and tantalize her with temperature - not knowing what to expect or when intensifies the pleasure shock.
• Alternate using two glass dildos - one warmed and one chilled.
• Tantalize the labia and clitoris with your glass dildo. Sometimes insert it directly without touching the outer erogenous zones.
• Alternate a few thrusts with a chilled glass dildo followed by a warm tongue. Contrast hard and soft feelings combined with temperature changes to create extremely delightful sensations.
• Anal intercourse can be combined with a vaginally inserted glass dildo that has been heated or cooled for added mutual enjoyment.
• Use different strokes to prolong or intensify the sensation. Use an ultra slow insertion while adding a few twists and turns. Or, insert it with one quick, smooth, deep thrust. Leave it inserted for a while twisting and wiggling it or withdraw it quickly. Experiment and play.

Warning: Avoid extreme temperature shocks and always test on your forearm before using on intimate body parts. Using other heat sources or directly freezing your glass dildo is not recommended.

Vibrant Vibrations

If you have not yet obtained one of the new vibrating glass dildos, there are other ways to set erogenous zones aquiver using your rock solid toys. The most obvious way is to use the glass dildo for penetration and G-spot stimulation while using a vibrator (pocket rocket) to stimulate the clitoris. Or, with a partner, create lovely vibrations with oral stimulation of the clitoris by humming (moaning, growling, purring). Both techniques may result in amazing combined or blended orgasms.

As you can see, glass dildos can be used in many different ways to pleasure your self or your partner. They can be used creatively before, during, after or even instead of intercourse.

To learn more and discover why you might want one and what you can do to enjoy one of these pleasure wands even more, see Luxury Love Toys. Visit Sexy Suggestions for more ideas that will have both you and your lover Gushing with Pleasure. And when you have your toys out to play, get Frisky Foreplay and enjoy Fooling Around with your lover.

Many years ago, to many in fact I was given a vibrator by my then boyfriend, oh lets call him complete bastard. The best thing he ever brought me and to be truthful the only thing that brought me to orgasm during my time with him.
Well as they say out of every bad situation comes something good. It was a simple bullet shaped hard plastic vibrator and in those days had two speeds ‘on and off’. Well I fell in love with my little friend and ended up wearing the poor little fella out.
So when “little bastard” as I called him went to the great plastic bin in the sky I decided to buy another. Now back in those dark ages there was no internet and well before sec in the city so vibrators were still considered a dirty little object for the perverse.
It was either mail order from the back of a seedy magazine or venturing to the dark side of town and entering a ‘male orientated’ adult shop. I decided I would venture to the adult shop and quickly grab another and run. So my journey began I wrapped myself in a scarf, dark sunglasses and a large indistinguishable overcoat.
I drove to the dark side of town and found the shop I was after. Now I sat in my car and waited because there were a large amount of people using the side walk in front of said seedy den. I thought to myself how inconsiderate of them don’t they know there is a sex shop right there.
I sat for an hour waiting for a break in the pedestrian traffic. Finally I came to the conclusion that there would be no break in the amount of people passing by and I would have to run the gauntness so to speak. So out I jumped, head down and scarf pulled tight over my head and raced into the shop.

I managed to make my way in without seeing anyone I know and without to many people noticing me. Once inside I found myself in a warm, colourful and extremely clean shop. Nothing like the seedy, grimy, men masturbating to magazines in the corner picture I had had in my head.
There was even a woman behind the counter and she gave me a knowing smile when I walked towards her. First thing she said was “Not what you thought?” I replied somewhat embarrassed at the way I was dressed “no not at all” and proceeded to unwrap my head and remove my sunglasses.
She knew what I was after and pointed me to a glass counter, I gave her a little smile and proceeded to check out all the different models that were stocked. Now this came as a shock to me as well. There was more than just a bullet shape hard plastic vibrators? I gazed at many weird and wonderful shapes
colours and material. After a short time the shop assistant came over and she went through all the varieties.

Now that day I ended up buying three and a couple of other items. I had gotten on so well with the shop assistant who I found out was the owner of the store that we became life long friends. I also started working there and found myself enjoying my job more than any other I had done.
Thanks to complete bastard he gave me a life time of pleasure and a career all with one little vibrator.

Eve Adams.

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Bullet Vibrators. (eggs)

 Usually small in length and width the bullet vibrator is in the shape of a bullet. Cylindrical in shape and not overly phallic, the bullet makes for one of the more stylish vibrators on the market. Most are waterproof as they are easily sealed with a rubber ring around the thread of the battery cave. The control button is usually a rubber dome located on one end. They can have from 1 to 3 varying vibration strengths for steady climaxing. The outer casing can be a soft rubber coating over plastic or just a harder plastic if you prefer. Used for clitoral or vaginal stimulation as they can be inserted.They can also be used as a good foreplay vibe as small size and easy handling can make for a fun night with your partner.

Most bullets are wireless meaning that they have no wires inside. Usually connecting battery and Vibrator with a circuit board.

My Secret

Now I like to use a bullet on my clit with one hand while using a g-spot vibe with my other in my vagina. This I find gives me a deep intense orgasm, a little more work but it pays off.

Eve Adams.

Being a retailer of sex toys I often get asked what is my favourite toy. I hum and ahhh trying to make it seem like it's a hard choice.
Although I always know exactly which one is always going to be my favourite. The Rabbit vibrator is my first choice of pleasure toys.
Having two orgasm making zones stimulated at once makes it a no brainer.So the rabbit with rotating pearls will always be my first choice if I ever happen to be stranded on a deserted island.
In fact if I could only have one item to be stranded with it would be the rabbit definitely.So what's second on my list? the we-vibe of course any toy which you can share with others while having sex is always a winner.
If you haven't tried one make sure it's on your list next time your browsing your favorite online sex shop

Third and finally I would put the good old latex dildo the more realistic the better. What could be better than having the best part of the male without the male.
Especially if you get one moulded from your favourite porn star. I have always loved my John Holmes special, a great sex toy to keep me satisfied at night.
Well these are my favourite three sex toys although I do have hundreds and try everything I sell these are the special ones that keep me coming back for more.
Remember to use a good lube and to relax and enjoy yourself. What would life be without time to give ourselves a little time to self satisfy.

Eve Adams

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Adult Toys - Uses and Care

By Ken Brower

There can be no denying that when it comes to sex, nothing beats the real thing. However, one cannot also ignore the popularity of several sex toys and the continued introduction of newer models to satisfy a demanding market. This market is growing and as such we should pay attention to how people integrate these items into their sex lives. You should be aware that sex toys can also be used to enhance your sex lives and bring you and your partner to a new level of closeness and intimacy.

Loosely defined, sex toys are devices meant to pleasure the user sexually, usually used on erogenous parts of the body. There are a lot of sex toys available in specialty shops and through the internet, though most condom retailers are offering a product called the vibrating ring.

Probably the most common and most popular sex toy is the vibrator. Majority of its users are women, and most admitted to curiosity as the primary reason for initial usage. Though some prefer to use vibrators in private, it can also be used with a partner. For heterosexuals, vibrators can be handy when the guy comes off too fast. It can also be a part of your foreplay, to arouse you and your partner to greater heights. In instances when the vibrator is shared, as in lesbian couples, slip a condom over it before inserting into the vagina and put a new one before handing it to your partner. Make sure that it is also properly cleaned before storing.

Dildos are also quite popular among the ladies, as they mimic the shape, texture, and size of a real penis, though they require considerably more effort than battery operated or rechargeable vibrators. Again, it would do some good if you slip on a condom over it before using, especially among lesbians who use it to pleasure their partners. And even if you are using it alone to masturbate, a condom would still be advisable unless you are pretty sure your storage place is totally devoid of germs and other irritants.

There is also one recently introduced product that is fast gaining a loyal following, the vibrating ring. It is a device that is slipped on the penis, and over a condom, and is used to enhance the pleasure of both partners. The vibrating ring has a small battery within the rubber casing. Women who have tried it claim of achieving multiple orgasms through the use of vibrating ring. And the best part of this is that men can take part of the action, too. A vibrating ring is known to extend the erection of the penis. It also has bumps and raised surfaces for heightened pleasure. And because it is stretchable, a vibrating ring can accommodate any size of penis. Vibrating ring users also revel in the fact that this device is portable, easily concealed and thus can be carried almost anywhere.

Though the use of sex toys to achieve self-gratification is an effective method of birth control, don't think it will turn you away from the pleasure of real, consensual sex. With the availability of contraceptives and protective devices such as condoms and pill, sex is and will always remain to be life's most enjoyable activity. However, there is still no denying that dildos, vibrators, and the vibrating ring afford much pleasure to their users and will continue to enjoy great popularity.

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