Of course size matters I hear you yell. Although contrary to popular belief not all of us are looking for the widest, longest vibrators to pleasure ourselves with.

No there are many who prefer a vibrator that won't scare their pussy tightly closed.

This is the reason vibrators come in many shapes and sizes what is good for one is obviously not good for another. While some of us think there is nothing better than seeing the term 'Thick' when vibrator browsing others prefer the terms 'elegant and slender'. So if you prefer your vibrators thinner then the average what should you do when vibrator shopping?

Well here are some tip to help you find your BFF

1/ If you see a vibrator you like but can't find the dimensions on the site you are purchasing it from make sure you email the seller and ask them for the length, usable length, width and circumference.  Also ask them the material the vibrator is constructed from and how many vibration units it has.

Also feel free to let them know what you are after so they can give advice to you if this suits what you're hoping to achieve from the vibrator. See everyone is different some prefer harder vibration on the clitoris while others prefer light. Some prefer pearls others like just vibration in the vagina. By asking questions you are more likely to not be disappointed when you rev that best friend up the 1st time.

2/ If you prefer a thinner vibrator but want that g-spot and simultaneously clitoral stimulation that rabbits provide but you find the rabbits all to thick and long. Try mixing it up get a g-spot vibrator and match it with a bullet or egg for clitoral stimulation.

Use both together and receive the same stimulation as a rabbit but you have more control and can stimulate more areas than just a rabbit.

3/ If new to the wonderful world of Vibration start off with a basic unit. If the site has a 'beginners' area browse and see what they recommend. Try something that you are comfortable with and start of small.

When you find that you enjoy the stimulation from a vibrator you can always go back to the site and try other shapes and sizes of vibrators. This way at least you have had some experience and have some knowledge of what you like.

4/ Always buy a decent personal lubricant that is made to preform with sex toys. Preferably buy one when you purchase your new toy this way you are assured it will be fine to use with your vibrator.

5/ Don't be afraid to ask the seller questions. It is not 1950 anymore and you need to be happy with your purchase. They are in the business of selling these little pleasure machines so DO NOT be afraid to ask all kinds of questions.

Unlike other kinds of shopping where you can try before you buy obviously with vibrators you can't.

So my advice to anyone who wants to enter the world of vibrators is start of small see what does it for you and go from there. Be sure to be happy with what you are purchasing and don't be afraid to ask the retailer questions.