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10 ways to put the spark back in your sex life
Let's face it, between stress, age, boredom and a lack of imagination some couples find their sex lives dwindling. If you feel your fun is on the fast track to nonexistence here are some tips to rediscovering mutual joy.
1. OPEN YOUR MIND: If what you normally do in the bedroom just isn't cutting it, try removing the phrase "normally in the bedroom" from your vocabulary. Try making love in a different room or on a different surface. Just watch for sharp corners!
2. TOYS AREN'T JUST FOR CHILDREN: Sex toys are available for anybody to accomplish any task. Toys don't judge you and your partner--you should be as nonjudgmental toward them.
3. SOME TOYS ARE UNIVERSAL: A vibrator can be good for both partners. Vibrational sensations can create a response in any individual. Be creative.
4. UNANNOUNCED ENCOUNTERS: Surprise your partner with an adult invitation when they least expect it. This may kick-in the animal instinct to act a little wild.
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5. FUN FOODS: Food and human skin go great together. The taste buds are linked intimately to the libido and can highten any sexual experience. The right foods like chocolates, creams, fruits and fine beverages can add class to the moment as well.
6. DIRTY TALK: Whether by text, or phone call, tell your parnter out of the blue you can't wait to see them. Describe only enough to leave them wanting more details. Hold back the real descriptive stuff until they arrive home.
7. ADULT FILM: Adult films are filled with images, situations and sounds that can trigger pleasure and desire in the brain. Both men and women can lose themselves in media and can learn a thing from the actors.
8. IN THE MOMENT, ACT ON INSTINCT: Make an agreement with your parnter before starting adult play to be open to anything that comes to mind. Set boundaries ahead of time. If you know what is off limits, you can improvise on a moment's notice and still seem like a sexual genius.
9. GO SHOPPING TOGETHER: Help eachother buy the "best" gear together. Breaking the ice on a new outfit will be accomplished and you won't be able to wait to show it off.
10. HOLD BACK: Sometimes, boredom in the bedroom comes from sex that is too frequent. Withold contact from eachother until you are both ready to explode. The reaquaintances will be very intense.
Have some ideas on spicing up sex lives that have lost there way? leave a comment below and add to the list!
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The Well would you Quiz
New sexy fun quiz asks the big question "would you?" to a number of the sexiest, dirty and downright naughty questions you will be asked by any quiz. Take the test and when finished see how you went against others. So sit back and enjoy the ride of Would you.
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Materials Adult Toys Are Made From
Silicone is one of the most popular materials for adult toys. It is described as pleasantly soft and lifelike, warming up to body temperature to simulate a very natural experience. Silicone is an optimal choice for intimate items, because is hypoallergenic and easy to clean. The material is nonporous so it is considered hygienic and safer than other materials.
It can be cleaned simply in a variety of ways including applying mild soap and warm water, boiling for sterilized condition, or bleaching with a 10% bleach solution. Silicone toys tend to be pricier than toys made from other materials; however they generally last longer and provide high customer satisfaction.
CyberSkin and materials similar to it, such as UltraSkin, Cyber Jel-ee, and UltraRealistic 3.0 just to name a few, are thermal plastic elastomers made to simulate the feel of real skin. They are well-suited to vibrators and other toys due to their softness, flexibility, and realistic texture. Toys made from CyberSkin are often coated with talc or cornstarch to give it a pleasing velvety feel and help the user avoid an uncomfortable sticky sensation. They are usually made from FDA approved ingredients and can be cleaned easily with soap and water.
They should be used only with water-based lubricants to avoid damage to the CyberSkin material.
Jelly rubber, or latex, is another popular materials used to make intimate toys. Part of the appeal of latex rubber is that it tends to be less expensive than other materials and that it is a versatile compound. It is soft and flexible and can be formed into toys of many different shapes, sizes, and looks. There are several drawbacks to making vibrators from latex jelly rubber. They cannot be used with people who suffer from latex allergies, and due to their porous material, they are harder to clean and should not be shared with other people after use.
Experts recommend using condoms and water-based lubricants with latex toys for the safest and most hygienic results.
Adult toys can also be made from hard materials like glass and acrylic. These can be made into fun shapes and feature creative, innovative and often beautiful designs. The smooth materials offer a very different sensation from the traditionally “soft” toys and it often enhances the user’s ability to feel the specific design details like ribbing or studding. Some can even be warmed up or cooled down to provide adventurous play for the user.
Acrylic and glass provide for less friction which may be preferred during intimacy, and they are easy to clean to promote hygienic use.
You can find a comprehensive sextoy material guide here for more information.
10 Reasons Sex Toys Are Better Than Men
1. Sex toys are always available; they never have previous engagements. A man will often have other things to do other than be with you. A sex toy, however, has no “life” to get in your way.
2. They don’t give excuses for being unable to perform. Once the switch is thrown a sex toy will work all the time the battery is charged. It will never have had a bad day or be too stressed out to satisfy your needs.
3. They don’t cut a partner down because of looks. Your nose is never too long or your eyes the wrong color for a vibrator. It is happy just to be inside and warm; it doesn’t care about the external package.
4. They don’t care if your makeup isn’t perfect. You don’t have to change the look of your face at three in the morning just to get some satisfaction. The toys are there to light up the world even if the mascara and lipstick are not fresh.
5. They don’t mind the few extra pounds that have taken up residence around the middle. Just because the svelte young thing you were has taken a sabbatical for the nonce doesn’t mean you don’t have needs. The toys are faithful even if the waist line has expanded.
6. They don’t demand all your attention all the time. When you really do have a headache or are tired the toys will leave you alone and let you sleep quietly without having to make ego saving excuses.
7. A sex toy won’t get its feelings hurt if you are not in the mood. You don’t have to explain yourself to a vibrator if you just don’t feel like it tonight. You can just be yourself without having to worry about permanently damaging a relationship by saying “No.”
8. A vibrator won’t mind if you want to go longer or for that matter for less time. It will have the energy and ability to go for multiples if you want to. It will never have the stamina for just once, and maybe not even that, so long as you keep the batteries fresh.
9. A toy doesn’t expect that the commitment will be forever. There will be no hurt feelings and guilt if a new and better model comes into your life.
10. A sex toy will never refuse to be with you when you are in need. Vibrators will always be there when you have the urge and never have to take a night out with the boys.
So how can you put your sexy lingerie to good use? Well if you have to ask I am wondering why you brought some sexy lingerie in the first place. Apart from the obvious of sexing up your love life and feeling extremely sexy and great while wearing lingerie what other good uses could you have for this type of clothing?
How about giving the neighbours something to gossip about? That sounds like putting your sexy lingerie to good use. How you ask? Well it's easy, try getting the mail while wearing your sexiest string lingerie which barely covers the important bits. Go out and wash your car wearing your pink teddy with the matching boa, do the gardening in a corset and g-string. Become the talk of the street, now that is putting your lingerie to good use.
So your ears are burning what else can we do to out our lingerie to good use. Well are you feeling a little unloved? Feel a little taken for granted, missing the passion in your relationship? Well what could be better than a little jealously and suspicion to get the fire burning back in your love life? Why not mess up the bed a little while your partner is out, leave your sexiest g-string in the bottom of the bed under the sheets. Make it look like you have had a little fun while they have been out. Have a tradesman coming over to fix something? put your sexiest lingerie (the one you only wear for sex) in the washing basket being sure to leave it hanging half out so your partner will notice. When they ask how your day was, you give a tiny smile and answer "exhausting"
Won't be long till the clues are adding up and it looks like you may get that extra attention that you have been missing. So there are plenty of good uses for lingerie and not only the one we all think of first.
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Is there a sex toy that can do oral sex for a woman? While most rabbit vibrators with their rabbit ears have given a similar sensation as a tongue flicking the clitoris to replicate oral sex. Probably the best sex toy to give oral sex stimulation would be the sqweel oral sex simulator. These oral sex stimulating toys have a wheel with 10 soft little tongues attached, they are powered by three AAA batteries and have 3 speeds.
With a easy to hold design which gives easy access to the speed control the Sqweel oral sex simulator does a good job of replicating oral sex. Also they come available with an add on so you can place a vibrator on the lower side of the casing to get some vaginal vibration stimulation happening. Although the real strength of this sex toy is that it does not use vibration or penetration to give you a orgasm and this in itself gives it that oral sex feel that other sex toys lack.
With an easy to clean case, it's simply a matter of a twist of the cover and you can clean or replace the wheel with another shaped unit which are sold seperatley. Also fun to have the Sqweel oral sex simulator involved with your partner, let them have control and have fun with different sex positions which involve the squeel!
So if you are after a sex toy that replicates oral sex then this is the toy for you. You can find this unit in our range by clicking here - Sqweel oral sex toy
Essential naughty night fun ideas
So you have a naughty night lined up and need some fun toys to get the party started,
For some serious g-spot stimulation, let you partner get the night started with some multiple g-spot orgasms with this fun little toy!
Keep him harder for longer with this handy cock ring. Always a good idea to keep it hard for as long as possible and reap the vibration as well, win, win!
3- Icicles No 1 glass massager
What could be more fun then letting your partner play hot or cold with a glass dildo?
4- Paradice the Original Love Game
A naughty fun game you both can play, what a sexy naughty must!
5- Wild Thing Hot Passion Massage Oil
get the night off right with your partner giving you a long sensuous massage with the right massage oil!
Like everything in life with lingerie it would be down to the preference of the person. Although there are more popular styles, colours and types of lingerie then others. So what are the more popular lingerie choices that there are on the market. A lingerie staple would be anything with suspenders, most men like a women in a sexy corset. Matched up with suspenders and sexy black fishnet stockings, push the boobs up so you get maximum cleavage and watch the men drool.
baby dolls that are transparent and usually made from mesh and lace are also very popular lingerie items. Colours like deep reds, black and variations of purple are very popular with the baby doll lingerie items. Another popular item is the adult costume area, items like French Maid costumes, school girl costume and nurse costumes are all very popular and can really heat up the bedroom. Sexy police girl handcuffing her man are sexy role playing ideas that can make sexy lingerie much more fun. The variety and range of sexy costumes is huge and this is an area of sexy lingerie that you may want to look into if you're after something sexy to wear.
Another very sexy and naughty item which only the very brave will wear is the string lingerie. This comprises of very little nothing more than string like material linked together to barely cover the important areas and show a lot more skin. These have become very popular and show that less is more when it comes to being sexy!
So you want to surprise your man and are not sure which way to go. Wear sexy lingerie or just for the naked route, well either choice is going to be Christmas for your man. Although I feel the sexy lingerie would be the better choice. Why you ask? Well lets start with what he will see, your sexy hot body with sexy lace just covering the important parts. A sexy present just for him to unwrap, a sexy invitation for him to reveal the sexy hot body that wants him and him alone. This is what a man will find sexy, let's look at the alternative. Just standing there naked, as you are in the shower. While still a very sexy proposition it just does not give off the sexiness that lingerie can.
It's more of a demand to your man "Here I am take me" which obviously can be sexy but just does not give the same sexy vibe as the invitation of sexy lingerie can give. Lingerie gives the message that you have gone to the trouble of being as sexy as you can for man. With lingerie you can also try some sexy costumes to try a little role playing to really spice up your love life. So whether you're happy to go the nude angle or want to sexy your body up. You're going to have a whole lot of fun in either case and there's no wrong way with that.
