Eve Adams

Like sex getting an orgasm with a vibrator is not always possible. If you never have had an orgasm while having sex then a vibrator can help achieve this but never assume that a vibrator will automatically give you the holy grail. While being a lot easier to orgasm with a vibrator due to the prolonged and steady stimulation they can provide. Some women cannot orgasm even with a vibrator and this can be a mental barrier rather than a physical one.

We know that great sex for a women starts with the brain as most women need the mental as well as the physical stimulation to get in the mood for sex. The same for masturbation if your head is not in the mood then the body sure wont be. Barriers to achieving orgasm through any form can be  ingrained into us by being told from a young age that masturbation is dirty and wrong. That sex is the missionary position and for contraception only, don't laugh this is still the way groups in our society still think . While it's not the 1950's anymore there still is an undercurrent in society that a women who enjoys sex is a slut, nympho or easy. All this can be a heavy burden for a women to carry and just enjoying sex and being able to orgasm even with a vibrator is impossible.

So the easiest way to orgasm with a vibrator starts in your head. If you're open to sex and have a open free mind and break down those barriers then achieving a orgasm with a vibrator or sex is as easy as just imagining one.