Eve Adams

So you want to join in the fun when you find your wife or partner masturbating with a vibrator. Or you want to bring the vibrator into your lovemaking? Whichever it does not matter but either way it sure will spark up you and your partners sex life. Like good love making it's good to start off slow with a vibe and build up the tension. Also it's good to listen to your partners advice if you have been given complete control of the vibrator. Depending on what type of vibrator you are using gives you different ways to use the vibrator on your partner.

Bullet vibrators are good to cusp in your hand and run over the erogenous zones of your partners body first. Play a little, the more you cusp the less vibration they will feel. Obviously the less you cusp the more vibration they will feel. Slide it around and avoid the more obvious vibration area's slowly build up to clitoris, labia and perineum. Slowly uncusp the bullet from your hand so the vibration increases on these areas of your partner. Bullet vibrators are great vibrators for playing with on your partner and even yourself.

For a rabbit vibrator use the controls to build up stimulation. Most rabbits have 3 speeds or more for the shaft and also a reverse mode. The rabbit (vibration unit) usually have a speed control or different modes of vibration. Ask your partner what they prefer but still try different modes and don't be afraid to move and play with the rabbit vibrator.

Most of all listen to your partner and get them to show you what they like and what they want.

How do you use a sex toy on your partner?