Eve Adams

A Man’s actions speak louder than the words he utters. Sometimes in a relationship couples can have difficulty expressing their thoughts, ideas and yes even their desires, this is mostly due to their fear of rejection. This is common in all levels of relationships, whether it is a new couple of just a few months or a matured relationship of a few years or even decades.
So, what does it mean if your boyfriend gives you sexy lingerie as a Christmas/New years gift? I would say that is a wonderful gift and gesture on his part. This is a direct message to you that your boyfriend wants to get more intimate, what lady doesn’t want to be desired by her man? Men have a hard time expressing their feelings because unlike women they don’t have the experience of regularly sharing their intimate thoughts with others.

A man will find a way to communicate with you if he is unable to say what he wants. In this case where your boyfriend has given you a sexy piece of lingerie, his gift speaks volumes. Your boyfriend wants to spice up your relationship, no doubt to re-start loves fire that may be dwindling. How you receive his gift will give your boyfriend an indication of where you view your relationship is headed.
Your reaction upon receiving his sexy lingerie gift is somewhat like receiving a report card grade, did he pass or did you fail him. The worst feeling for a man is to be with a woman who he feels doesn’t want him sexually. A gift of lingerie can be the beginning or the end to a relationship. It’s now up to you to decide which it will be.

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